A name announces our individual presence to the world. It defines who we are and how we are known. And so, the naming of a baby, the presentation of a new being into the world, is an occasion that is joyful and, also, one that can set the course in the life that is being lived. Think of how the name of a famous parent will create opportunities (and, perhaps, difficulties) for the life of that child. For the rest of us, the name may connect the child with ancestors and our family - it says you are one of us. The naming of a child is important.
once knew someone who had been adopted. As an adult, this man decided
to reclaim the name he had received from his birth mother. This was his
way of saying this is where I came from, this is where I have chosen to belong.
of us may choose to change one or more of our names for other reasons.
Many of us with some African ancestry may choose to find a connection to
that continent through a name. When enslaved people were brought from
Africa, their names were taken from them,signifying that their
personhood no longer mattered. The often negative reaction received when
a woman chooses not to take on her husband's name is a measure of the
depth of patriarchal values. Some people may find that their birth name
no longer fits them and they would like a new name - a rebirth - to show
that they are a new person.
Some of us may have
names that are used only in particular circumstances, such as a name
used by a Druid that connects him or her to a deity or some other aspect
of the world of spirit. It is no small thing to give up an old name, or
to take on a new one. It sets us upon a new way of being.
one of the stories of Isis, she desires to know the secret name of Ra.
Without his secret name, Isis cannot know his deepest, truest being, or
claim his magic for herself. By trickery, she finds the secret name of
Ra and becomes the mistress of all magic.
A name is
magic. Celebrate the giving of a name - whether to a baby, or when
taking on a new name. Think about everything that this name means. It is
who you are, or who you wish to become.